That's the love from a mom. No matter what has happen or what you have done, mom is still the best person ever that will stay with you forever. No question to it. She is the person who you can trust 100% with no doubt. I believe in this once I'm become the mom. I guess you'll never ever think to harm your kids on any way. Protecting them is what you try. Protecting = pampering? Yes and No probably.
Plus one more thing, mom words are always right. Although, sometimes Koko said 'no'.... and now Didi said 'no' too. It's hard to convince them on the thing that they like. If you tell Didi, you can only can have 2 chocolates for 1 day, he will said 'No'.
Koko and Didi has their own character, but one thing which is in common. They master the word 'Mai' very well. Now, Didi can clearly differentiate the word 'yes' and 'no'. Koko is a very caring boy if he wants to. Sometimes, he may be cheeky and mischievous. Both of them can give you a lot of surprises and unwanted outcome sometimes. When they became silent in the room, AHA...I got to quickly has a peek. Once I thought so relieved that both of them can stay so quietly in the room by themselves. Eventually, when I went in, I almost fainted. The powder was all over the bed, floor and on Didi's body. Koko was having so much fun do painting on Didi's body. For Didi, he was enjoying it too. For mom, it was a disaster to discover.
Koko learnt his lesson on the hard way, while Didi has a better observation and more sensitive to his environment. I can't say that Koko is been pampered more than Didi. For Koko, because hubby and I were a new parent, we tried our best to give the best to him. Guess from there, Koko is been more pampered. We explored with him together most of the time.
No matter what it is, both of them are still my very precious and will always be.. baby baby..